Meg & Scott building a family

I met Scott at age 34 - and knew he would be the love of my life not too long after. I have been in the medical field and it's been hard to meet people as well as have the time to settle down. Scott is in the military, airborne ranger, and almost has 20 years of service to this country. I moved across the country after he got PCS orders, found a job to be near him, and we got married. I'm so blessed to have this amazing man in my life. Unfortunately we have had fertility issues - unclear if this is related to any of his prior deployments and exposures with my age added. We are now considering IVF versus adoption and any financial aid would truly be welcomed ??