Help make my dream come true

Hello everyone. I'm Sarah, 38 years old and a single woman. I work full-time as a teacher at a childcare center and a teacher at my Church in the nursery on Sunday morning. I have quite a few niece's and nephews and even a great nephew who I love and adore. They are blessings in my life. But there's always been something missing in my life and that's the dream of becoming a mother before it's too late. My mom passed in 2014 and I'm the only child out of my siblings that doesn't have kids, I would like to be a amazing mom just how my mother was to us. I want the experience of carrying, birthing and raising my own blessing, so I'm working with a fertility clinic and in the process of doing IUI/IVF with a anyomous donor. I'm here looking for help, I honestly don't ask for much. My goal here is to make my dream come true. And live up to my mother's name. Thanks for reading and any help. I'll post updates if things go well.....(also my father doesn't know yet kinda being hush till I get more in the process) Sarah