Adding a Family member - IVF fund

Hi. I'm Katrina- and you'll normally find me sandwiched between my dog, Bud, and my husband, Marc, watching our 13 year old Violet get in to whatever she can find! Marc and I were married in August of 2021, and he has 2 children from his previous marriage. I have Violet from mine, and we are looking to add 1 of our own. (yours, mine, and ours ring a bell?). We have a few odds seemingly stacked against us- but we are hopeful. Thanks for taking a look here!